I don't know why I end up assuming that stress and drama isn't gonna happen again. That just because I've learned from it and am better able to handle it I assume it's hardly going to happen again in the future. But lo and behold it happens when I least expect it something isn't what I expected or someone isn't who I thought they were and I'm surprised. Although now not much shocks me, I've seen it all and you learn to just laugh at everything, make whatever changes need to occur and even be grateful for it because you're now free of what no longer serves your purpose. But it's interesting how we almost always are given a warning intuitively about what needs to change. I need to listen to the very first whisper I hear and not end up entertaining the drama when it occurs. I can steer clear of it from the first moment. I can become aware of my needs, create sound expectations and boundaries early on and only be surrounded by those I truly want to be surrounded with. Anyone who turns out to be a stress or ends up demanding attention from me is automatically gonna be removed. Life is so short and once you've had a taste of bliss, you can't go back.